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Unthankful, adj.: not feeling gratitude

on December 5, 2013

Well, it has been a while! I sat down at least three times to write a Thanksgiving post. It is my favorite holiday, the one with absolutely no controversial pagan underpinnings. 🙂 I love the traditions of turkey and cranberries and family. This year we had our traditional meal almost a week early to include two of my siblings as well as two of my aunts and their husbands.

The actual Thanksgiving Day found me cooking a birthday breakfast and playing Catan with my husband and little boys until I had to stop and cook up some delectables for an early afternoon supper with the aunts. No turkey at all, but such a fun day. Camaraderie with loved ones, good food (possibly the best date pudding ever constructed in Osterburg, if I do say so myself) and good cheer. Do you ever feel like you are so blessed, it isn’t fair? It is easy to list all the cozy things, the smiley things, the kindnesses.

I set myself a challenge, every year, to find the things I am most tempted to grouse about and be thankful for them. The list is both revealing and embarrassing. Also private. But I will give you one example.

A few weeks ago a bunch of us ladies from church were polishing fruit for baskets to distribute to our neighbors. My nurse friend who works nightshift and I were talking about how nightshift just stinks, me from my perspective and her from hers: how the rhythms of normal life get so mixed up, the social life withers and all but dies, etc, etc. Someone else observed, kindly and truthfully, “There are probably worse things.” I suppressed the sudden urge to lob an apple across the room and we dropped the subject.

But it kept coming back to me, “This is your unlikely thing to become thankful for.” Okaaay. I started thinking about it. I write in the evenings when I am alone, after the bedtime drama is over and I don’t have my husband to converse with. Without so much night shift this past year, the blog would probably only have half the posts, or fewer.

Nightshift means much less cooking for me, since “the rhythms get all messed up” and my kids think Ramen noodles are a party. It means long evenings to read stories to the children and play games and having all the pillows and the bed to myself. 🙄  Nightshift is mostly calmer for the nurses and pays a teeny bit more.

It is easier for me to be thankful for nightshift, since my man now has enough time at his job to state his preferences for next year, and he stated his preference to be day light hours. Oh glory! I think I can stay thankful for the month of December, yet.

 “How sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is

To have a thankless child!”- Shakespeare

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4 responses to “Unthankful, adj.: not feeling gratitude

  1. Valerie says:

    Great post! I really enjoy reading what you share. Thanksgiving is a wonderful holiday. 🙂 Since Richard has been working night shift, I feel that I can throw in my two cents and say that night shift really does mess with the rhythms of life!
    We had a lovely Thanksgiving and the Lord has blessed us so very much! He is so good!!!! 😀

    • deepeight says:

      Nightshift is a rite of passage for graduate nurses, I guess. One thing I forgot to mention is that I can make a quick run to the grocery store or post office, take a walk, etc. when he is at home during the day, even if he is sleeping.

  2. Linda Horst says:

    Thanks for this challenging reminder!

  3. Luci says:

    Good stuff. I like this idea very much. I guess I’ll start my unlikely thanks with 30 below weather. The quote from Shakespeare is great! SO true.

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